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September 3, 2010, 11:17 am

Yes, that's the Betty Jean Lifton book and her source is Paul Mones....maybe there was additional research done after she wrote the book, I'm not sure. But I don't think it's a valid "statistic."

September 3, 2010, 10:45 am

Nicole, Bonding and breaking the bond has to impact the infant. I have much the same story - no idea of the first few months but for the first 6 months...I could not be laid down and had to be rocked or I screamed and screamed. The only way mom and dad got any sleep was by laying me across dads...

September 3, 2010, 10:23 am

I'm extremely appreciative of the help search angels give and very sensitive about not wasting their time. Having said that, keep in mind that search angels are human and can occasionally make mistakes. Not often, but sometimes. If you hit a wall on something, get a second look...a second...

September 3, 2010, 9:04 am

Hello! We are conducting a research study on adoption and family communication. We are looking for adopted individuals who are at least 18 years old and willing to complete a confidential questionnaire online regarding this topic. In addition to participating yourself, we would appreciate your...

September 3, 2010, 8:53 am

Scary to say the least. Here in the USA, foster parenting is actually a cottage industry. Back in another lifetime I was a building contractor. Three homes I personally built were for foster "parents". I use the term parent very loosely. I could already see that those kids were very...

September 3, 2010, 8:27 am

I am a volunteer search angel and willing to help you..You can pm me the info... Sandy Volunteer Searcher

September 3, 2010, 8:25 am

Do you know the birth date for him?

September 3, 2010, 7:16 am

Looking for my uncle. Born "David B..." in the fall of 51-53 born on Harrisburg, pa army base. Please Help!

September 3, 2010, 6:14 am

was wondering how the search is going...if you still need help, let me know..i am a volunteer searcher... sandy

September 3, 2010, 6:07 am

my name is sandy and i am a volunteer search angel and am willing to help you..i have an idea on how to find out what her name is..i am going to send you an email.. sandy volunteer searcher

September 2, 2010, 9:41 pm

cajjj many of us have the same feelings you have shared. Adoption is a life long sentence and much of how we feel is based on what happened not only at the time of the adoption, but as a part of our ongoing scene as we grew older. Our adoption feelings came over a period of time and it will...

September 2, 2010, 8:16 pm

got an email back today from the agency I was adopted through. I need to send them some info and $50 a non ID search with medical info. The rep from the agency cautioned me not to expect too much beacuse 40-50 years ago adoption was completely different and very secretive,

September 2, 2010, 2:41 pm

I decided to write a blog about my "journey" of finding my bparents. I have been told it can be theraputic...we shall see. I hope my blog can help others...

September 2, 2010, 1:39 pm

I'm glad you finally have some answers. I imagine your birth moms's pregnancy was quite scandalous for her and the family and that is probably why the arrangement was made for you to be adopted within the family. In my opinion, that secrecy ended up hurting you because you felt you were second...

September 2, 2010, 1:11 pm

I am a female born April 26, 1983 at Kenmore Mercy Hospital. I am blonde and have hazel eyes. I was adopted through Catholic Charities in Buffalo, NY.